Showing posts with label Democrats. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Democrats. Show all posts

Sunday, January 8, 2023

The First Week

At our neighborhood Kroger on a too-warm December 30, the clerk, an older woman, saw that one of my bags said "Jewish Currents." She looked at it awhile then asked, "Do y'all do anything special for New Year's?" Joe would have said "It's not our New Year." I disagree. As an American by birth and by choice, it is my New Year. I said " We'll probably go out to dinner and be home by 9 P.M." 

We did go out to Lavender Cafe, a favorite Asian restaurant. We put on ties, which is rare for either of us. Joe wanted fish in black bean sauce with chow fun noodles. They told him it would have to be two separate dishes. I had pad Thai with chicken, what I always get there. Then we drove downtown for ice cream from a chain ice cream place. I don't remember the flavors, but we were home by 8 P.M. and asleep well before midnight. 

We were invited to an early party January 1 (4-8) by our friend Adrianne, the closest Morgantown comes to a society matron. Since the Dobbs decision, she's become a Democratic Party activist. She helped me and other Democrats with our campaigns. Not long before we left the house, I scraped my arm on the corner of a kitchen counter and a piece of skin peeled off. I knew if I went to the emergency room I would be there for hours, so I put an antibiotic cream on it and covered it with a pad and off we went. The party was extravagant. Adrianne is from Georgia, and she served "Hoppin' John," which I had never heard of. It's black-eyed peas, collard greens, and ham hocks. Adrianne sent me a message a few days before the party that she would have some without pork, for us and someone else who isn't Jewish, but doesn't eat pork. The veggie Hoppin' John was quite good, and there was plenty of food. My problem was sampling all twenty or so desserts. One resolution down the drain by January 1. 

I have medical appointments all through January. One last Friday was with a pulmonologist to discuss why my breathing is off. This week on Tuesday, I'm having an endoscopy, where they look down my throat into my stomach to figure out why I still have acid reflux. The week after that it's an appointment with the doctor who will take the cataracts out of my eyes.

I've been trying to visit one county per month within 300 miles of Morgantown, any state, in alphabetical order, since we moved to Morgantown in July 2012. I got held up, first with the pandemic, then with my campaign, which had me criss-crossing northern West Virginia, but not taking time to really explore. I figured if I started in November, and did three counties each month until June, I could be caught up. So the plan was to hit three counties this past week before my Friday office visit. The counties were Greene, Virginia, Giles,Virginia, and Greenbrier, West Virginia. I figured a half-day to drive, then an afternoon and the next morning to visit, and another drive in the afternoon. I managed to see a fair amount of Greene and Giles, but by the time I got to Greenbrier, I checked into the motel and crashed. It's 179 miles to Morgantown from Lewisburg, and by Thursday morning, I just headed home after breakfast.

Greene County is north of Albemarle County, where Charlottesville is located, and the south end of the county is rapidly developing as a suburb. I stayed in Albemarle County at a new motel in "The Usual Chain" about seven miles south of the county line, in a neighborhood full of strip malls and hotels, where it's nearly impossible to walk anywhere. I did manage to walk to a restaurant and a grocery store, but it wasn't easy. In Ruckersville, along U.S. 29, I found the tourist center in a 1920s farmhouse. The tourist lady and I got into a discussion. She's 60, born in Lebanon, Pennsylvania, and has lived all over upstate New York (too much snow!) before coming to Charlottesville, where she lived for twenty years. She's glad to be gone ("It's not like it used to be!"). Joe's voice in my head says "Nothing is what it used to be, is it Mr. Granger? " " No, indeed."  I hear that complaint everywhere I go, including in Morgantown, where a woman I know, a civic gadfly, complained to me at Adrianne's party that Morgantown is not what it used to be.

Stanardsville, the county seat of Greene County, is still a rural small town, only a few blocks square. Half of the county was taken by the Federal government in the 1920s to form part of Shenandoah National Park. There is a monument to families who were forced to move off the mountain when the park was created. Even though it was quite warm when I was there (about 65 F.) a park ranger at the entrance to the park at Skyline Drive told me parts of the road were still icy and it was closed to the public.

Giles County is several hours southwest of Greene, just south of West Virginia. It's also in the mountains and pretty. It was a little cooler and overcast. I stayed 20 miles south in Dublin, Virginia. Much of the drive was on I-81, so it was a little easier than the back roads to Greene County. I stopped for lunch at a Sheetz in Staunton, a city I like and have visited. Sheetz is a gas station/convenience store/ restaurant, ubiquitous in this part of the world. I looked around a bit in Pearisburg, the county seat of Giles County, before heading to the motel. The woman at the desk suggested a place called "The Mason Jar" nearby for dinner. Another place down the road had a special on steak on Tuesday, but I normally don't eat beef. My sister and husband have both been on my case about not ordering what a restaurant is known for. This came about when I ordered chicken or turkey in a place known for crabs. There was a sign at The Mason Jar that the special was hamburger and French fries. I just about never eat that, but I ordered it, with American cheese on the burger and ketchup on the fries. It was excellent and cheap, but I could feel the difference in my body. Maddie, the waitress, came and sat with me. I was the only one in the restaurant on a rainy weeknight in January, although there may have been people in the bar downstairs. I was flattered because she'e 22 and pretty with tattoos and piercings. She told me her main job is at the restaurant, but she has a college degree in journalism and works part-time for a company doing publicity. I told her I had run for Congress in 2022 and she could look me up. She did. It says "politician, age 73" she said and gave me a look. "You can't be 73!" 

I spent the next morning in Pearisburg, looking around. There is a waterfall, but it was a four-mile round trip hike and I didn't think I could do it. I did drive up a mountain to Mountain Lake Resort. Part of "Dirty Dancing" was filmed there. I didn't find a lake. In town, I visited a thrift shop and a bookstore, Walgreen's and Food Lion. I bought cottage cheese, yogurt, a single serving of Cheerios and a banana, and ate lunch at a park in Pembroke, downhill from the resort, and east of Pearisburg. I drove from there through Narrows, a small town on New River, and then off to Lewisburg, which shouldn't have been far, but seemed like it was. On U.S. 219, there is a mountain wall, separating Virginia from West Virginia. In the northern part of the state, the boundaries were created by Mason and Dixon and Abraham Lincoln and don't seem to make any sense. 

Greenbrier County is large in area as West Virginia Counties go, and I drove through Ronceverte to Lewisburg, the county seat. I stayed just north of downtown. Lewisburg is a green and pretty town. I crashed and burned in the hotel. I got up for dinner and walked to a Shoney's restaurant in the same development as the motel. I was worried that I was wearing old torn-up jeans and thought I looked awful. In the restaurant, everyone was my age and older and was wearing old torn-up jeans, so I fit right in. There was a buffet, so I was able to eat healthier, except for the piece of fried chicken and the desserts. There is a bar in the hotel, and a woman I saw on my way out, who was smoking a cigarette just outside the bar, was still there, still smoking, with a tall, young, unkempt man, with wild red hair piled on top of his head. She went back in the bar, but the man, Phillip, stayed outside and we talked for a long time. His father is British, and he and the young woman are partners. They own a cattle ranch in Costa Rica, but he lives in West Virginia and does construction and other manual labor. He asked me to come in and have a beer, but I demurred. I told him I was too old to drink at 73. Like the woman, the night before, he didn't believe I could be that old. "What's your secret?" I said " I don't smoke or drink or do drugs." He and the young woman were both coughing. We talked for about a half hour, and by 7:30 I said "I'm fading. I have to go." All these people think I look young, but I don't feel that anymore. I want to go back to Greenbrier County, and really explore it. It was not in my congressional district, and I had never been there before.

I thought about going to urgent care Monday morning before I left, but I decided my time was limited, so I skipped it. My arm held up okay. It wasn't bleeding and didn't look bad until Wednesday night, when it was red and painful. Thursday morning it was oozing pus. I drove home, arriving about three, went to sleep, had dinner with Joe, and went out to urgent care. The doctor explained that because my tetanus shot was up to date, it held off the infection for a few days. If I had come in Sunday when it happened, it could have been stitched. They x-rayed my arm, and there was no bone or muscle damage. The nurse bathed my arm in peroxide and wrapped it in two layers. She said "It's easy to do this." I said "Easy for you. I can't do this alone and even with help it never works out." I cooked dinner and went to services with Joe Friday night. I felt clogged in my nose and ears, but basically good.

I rested a lot Saturday, doing my walk around the neighborhood without difficulty. Joe helped me change the dressing Saturday night. We ordered carry out pizza and stopped at Kroger for ice cream instead of going downtown to the retail chain ice cream place. WVU had a big basketball game ( Kansas, who won) and I didn't want to be out. 

The lesson? Stop everything if you have an injury and get it fixed right away. Also, don't try to do three counties in three days. I redid my schedule, looked at Year 12, July 2023 to June 2024 (Guernsey, Ohio to Harrison, West Virginia, alphabetically), and figured if I do two counties per month, I can be up to date by June next year. It's an attainable goal at least.

Here are some pics:


                                                            At Lavender Cafe New Year's Eve
Powell-McMullen House near Stanardsville, Greene County, Virginia, 1800, expanded 1842
Looking west from the north end of Greene County, into Shenandoah National Park. Skyline Drive through the park was closed for the winter.
                                                    Church in Stanardsville Historic District
                      Giles County Courthouse, Pearisburg, Virginia, 1836. The wings were added later

                                Abandoned movie theater, South Main Street, Pearisburg Historic District
            Biden got 23% of the vote in Giles County in 2020, but the Democrats make their presence known
               Greenbrier County Courthouse, Lewisburg, West Virginia, 1837, with later additions


Thursday, November 10, 2016

I Wish This Would Be Over Soon (But I Know It Won't Be)

Comments last night and this morning on Facebook: There was a post about the Republican woman running for state treasurer in West Virginia, and people were supporting her in the comments. I should have kept my mouth shut, but I said "I never vote for Republicans."
Responder1: "Isn't time (sic) for change?"

Me:"Yes. Let's vote out the Republicans in West Virginia. I'm in a same-gender marriage. I can't afford to have haters trying to overturn that. And no, I don't vote for Democrats who would overturn my marriage, either."

Responder 2: "Barry's gonna vote for Hitlery (sic) who wants to flood America with hundreds of muslims (sic). Barry, you know they'll want to throw you from the roof of a tall building to splat on the concrete below. You Libs are crazy! You should let some refugees move in with you . Maybe you can change them."

Responder 2 (again):"Republicans won't let 'em do that to ya, Barry. We'll keep the animals away!"

Me; "You are full of crap,[name]. That minister in Iowa they all visited wants us all killed. The Republicans have never been any kind of friend to gays. None of us are that stupid."

Me (again): "And calling people 'animals' who are fleeing for their lives is not something I, as a religious person, can abide. It further proves how debased conversations by Republicans are. Have a nice day."

No comment from the candidate whose page this was on.

Someone else suggested I read the Bible, because I can't be gay and religious. I said "It doesn't say that," and suggested he read about helping the poor, healing the sick, and welcoming the stranger.

Then there were comments, possibly deleted, about how the church bombing in Mississippi and the graffiti that said "Vote Trump" could not have been done by Trump supporters.

Respondent 1: "the clintons have instigated violence before, plus who tf writes vote trump lmao seems like a dumb move that the clinton campaign and the Democracy Partners and Americans United for Changes SuperPACs would do" (exactly like that)

There are lots of folks out there who do write grammatically and sound like they know what they're saying. One was astonished when I called him an anti-Semite. Why? Because he said Hillary Clinton voted for war in Iraq because "Israel told her to." I asked for (but didn't get) proof that his statement was valid.

I wrote most of that in my OLLI writing group Thursday, before the election. After the Jewish holidays, six weeks of OLLI classes, and the election, I planned to be away four days on my own. Joe and I are spending time with our families in Memphis, metro D.C. and New York between now and the end of the year. I needed time to be on my own.

As everyone knows, the election did not go as most of us hoped. We woke up on the anniversary of Kristallnacht, to find someone who had used Fascist-type rhetoric, consorted with blatant racists, and lied repeatedly, elected President because a minority of the population doesn't like Hillary.

I've read all the calls to prayer, heard him say he wants to President for everyone and we should all come together, and nice words from Mr. Obama and Mrs. Clinton. I don't think so.

I don''t actually know what to do. I'm too old and weak to be out demonstrating, and I don't think it will do any good. I'm not anxious to leave the country, not yet. And Joe likes his job in West Virginia, where Mr. Trump won a majority in every county, although a smaller majority in Monongalia County, where we live, than in any other in the state. Small comfort.

Most of the places I have visited on my monthly visits voted for him. I've seen many depressed places. Now they've blown up the country. I'm tempted to just walk away and tell them to deal with the mess they've created. Or maybe restrict where I visit in the future, like my parents, who only visited New York and South Florida, because they didn't know where else Jews would be welcomed.

Locally, we got two more  Democrats in the state legislature, the two least progressive of the four non-incumbents who could have won. The two of us who were the most progressive got knocked off in the primary.

There's a lot of talk about understanding the frustrations of working-class white men. Same old story. What about the frustration of same-gender couples? Of women who feel like it's open season on them? Of people with family on two sides of the border? Of Muslims and Sikhs who came here for the freedoms others take for granted?

My young friend talk about waiting for old people to die off so they can take over. Thanks, guys. We are not all heinous troglodytes, and we will be gone soon enough. Young people overwhelmingly voted against Trump-except in West Virginia. And I spoke at the gym I go to to one of the sweet young girls who works there. She didn't register to vote.

I'm not sure what to do. I'm just venting here, like everyone else has been doing. He was right about the system being rigged: only it was rigged in his favor, what with gerrymandering in many states, most notably North Carolina, voter ID laws in many places, and the way the electoral college is set up to favor small states that can be easily swayed with money, like West Virginia.

I've heard pundits and sociologists say we all have different ways of interacting. In New Yorker magazine, there was an article about how you have to be friendly to your neighbors, even if they put a sign for him on their lawn. No.

In California, people say "Hi!" to you and smile when they pass you on the street. It doesn't mean much, except to acknowledge your presence and that you belong. The locals in West Virginia always say they are friendly people, but I find, just walking around, that people will turn away from you or ignore you when they pass by. Maybe I need to look at more people as being my enemy, because in effect, that is what they are. "No, we don't hate you. Our religion tells us two men shouldn't marry." My answer to that is "If you voted for that guy, you have lost the right to start a sentence with "The Bible says...". Charity, acts of lovingkindness, welcoming the stranger? Aren't those in the Bible, or were you absent from Sunday school that day?"

Enough ranting for now. There will be consequences. And not just "unfollowing" people on Facebook. I did that a long time ago. I'm siding with the people I've lately learned about: the ones who use words like "intersectionality" and "microagression." The people who decide on their own what race and gender they are. I'm a queer, non-white religious minority, and if it comes to taking sides, that is who I am with.

I have two days to explore Camden County, New Jersey. Then I'll be back to real life in West Virginia.



Thursday, August 6, 2015

Coal, The Iran Deal, and The Republican Debate

Part One: Coal

There was an opinion piece yesterday, August 5, in The Gazette-Mail, Charleston's daily newspaper from Kevin Crutchfield, CEO of Alpha Natural Resources, a coal-mining company, crying about how the bankrupt company can't be sold to a company in Kentucky unless it stops paying pensions and providing health insurance to retirees. According to Chris Regan's blog (homeyesterday.com), in a post from August 3, Crutchfield received a two million dollar bonus this year, and six million total in 2011 and 2012.

Meanwhile, President Obama came out this week with new guidelines for carbon pollution to combat global warming, air pollution and the high incidence of asthma, particularly among young people who live near coal-burning facilities.

According to our local politicians, particularly our Republican Congressman David McKinley and our newly-elected Republican Senator Shelley Moore Capito, but also our Democratic Senator Joe Manchin III, Obama is the villain. The health of people in the United States, and particularly in West Virginia, comes second to the lining the pockets of coal company executives. Meanwhile the bankrupt companies want to back out of their contracts to provide for retirees, and want to sell out their union workforce to non-union companies. This year, they convinced our Republican-dominated legislature to ease safety regulations for the mines.

Educated people and anyone wanting a chance for a real life have been leaving West Virginia for decades. Whole neighborhoods in northwest Baltimore, near where I grew up, were inhabited by "hillbillies," as we called them in our ignorance when I was a teen. In the 2010 census, forty of our fifty-five counties had lost population over the previous ten years. And yet coal millionaires ask for tax cuts and buy Republican officeholders (and many Democrats) to make sure the health of the planet, and the well-being of workers and their communities are not considered. Everything is the fault of Obama and the EPA.

President Obama has offered to help retrain workers and bring new industry to the coalfields. He has been so demonized here that no one will listen. When we came here in 2012, there were signs everywhere that said "Stop Obama's War On Coal." I understand fear of change and economic insecurity. I wish someone could reach out to people who are pro-coal - and I see lots of "Friend of Coal" decals on cars- and explain to them how they are being used, in a way they might understand. Once in a while I see a sticker that says "Friend of Coal Miners," and I think that is something that needs to be emphasized.

Part Two: The Iran Deal

There has been a split in the Jewish community about the Iran deal. Again, Obama is blamed by many traditional Jewish organizations, and certainly by Prime Minister Netanyahu in Israel, of caving in to Iran and not stopping a deal. Of course, the deal is not just the United States and Iran, but includes Britain, France, Germany, the European Union, Russia and China. People opposed to the deal want the United States to take unilateral action, maybe even to go to war against the regime in Iran. President Obama warned that these are the same people who pushed for war in Iraq.

I get that Iran has a terrible government. But I also understand that the United States does not, at this time, have the power to effectively engage Iran in war, even if we wanted to. Our allies in Europe would not support us. It is time to acknowledge that we must work with other countries, our allies particularly, but even Iran. Killing off a bunch of people we think are different from us is an American tradition, going back to Colonial days, but I've known people from Iran- yes, mostly Jews who fled, but others, too- and I don't see them as different from us. As we approach the anniversary of the atomic bomb dropped on Hiroshima, I know that war should be absolutely off the table. Is everything 100% verifiable in this treaty? I don't know. But I have to trust that a consortium of nations came up with a workable deal.

Part Three: The Republican Debate

So the Republicans are debating tonight. We don't have a television, but if we did, I wouldn't watch Fox. Not one Republican of the Top Ten has had anything positive to say about the rights of LGBT people or is in favor of my marriage. That alone is reason enough to not watch them. As far as threatening to shut down the government for funding Planned Parenthood, they should be tried for treason.

I cleaned up my political act for my spouse, Rabbi Joe, when he was applying for pulpit positions in 2012. He doesn't take a public stand on political issues, although some wish he would. He and I don't agree about everything political. If you look at the Religious Action Center of Reform Judaism, you will find that my positions follow those of our religious movement. I'm less diplomatic in my verbiage.