Saturday, May 13, 2023

Jeanne Manford and P.F.L.A.G.

 The April 17 issue of The New Yorker had an article about Jeanne Manford, the founder of PFLAG, friends and Parents of Lesbians and  Gays. She started in 1972 at a Gay Pride March in New York, in support of her then-21 year old son Morty, who died from complications of AIDS in 1992, at age 41.  I wrote a letter to the New Yorker, which Joe signed also, after making some grammatical corrections. Here's the letter:

"We were moved by Kathryn Schulz' beautiful tribute to Jeanne Manford, the founder of PFLAG. We both marched in the 1979 National March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay RIghts, but we didn't meet until 2005. By that time, we had dealt with our parents'  discomfort, cycled through jobs where we were not respected, and survived the worst of the AIDS crisis. 

"Schulz reminded us of the sorrow we carry with us of the loss of friends to AIDS. We celebrate Jeanne Manford and others who stood up for us and our community, and we thank Kathryn Schulz for reminding us that we have survived and thrived. We kvell that Jeanne Manford was Jewish, and we bless her memory.

"Joe is now completing his eleventh year as the rabbi of Tree of Life Congregation in Morgantown, West Virginia. Barry was elected to Morgantown's City Council in 2017 and 2019, and was the Democratic nominee for U.S. Congress in West Virginia's Second Congressional District in 2022. We legally married in California in 2008.

"Thank you for reminding us how far we've come."

The New Yorker didn't print our letter, but I want to share it.


Thursday, May 11, 2023

Goochland and Grayson Counties, Virginia, Part Two: Grayson County

 It's  263 miles from Goochland Courthouse to Independence, both in Virginia. The route is mostly via Interstates 64, 81 and 77, so it's an easy drive and the weather was good on Wednesday, April 19. I stopped for lunch at a Sheetz convenience store near Roanoke, and stayed at a cheap version of "The Usual Chain" off I-77, in Hillsville, Carroll County. I was able to use points to pay for the stay. Many of the people staying there were men my age on motorcycles, and people working in the area, parking trucks with company names on them, and leaving early in the morning. Carroll County broke off from Grayson, and the City of Galax took territory from both counties when it incorporated in 1953. I visited the former Courthouse, now on the very edge of the county in Greenville, or Old Town, last renovated in 1832.

                                                 Original County Courthouse, Greenville 
                                Original county clerk's office, across from the old courthouse in Greenville

There were restaurants and motels around the U.S. 58 exit from I-77, but I decided to go into Hillsville, the county seat of Carroll County. There isn't a lot there, so I ate at a Taco Bell, where I couldn't figure out the tablet you were supposed to order on.

Grayson County has a population of just over 15,000 people, and only seven places listed on the National Register. It's over 90% White and over 80% of the voters voted for The Previous Guy in 2020. It's also scenic and held my interest for a day. It took me some thought to figure out how to see the county, but there are only really three towns, Fries, Independence, the county seat, and Troutdale, up in the mountains. 

I found a way to get to Fries on back roads- actually, most of the roads, like in many areas of West Virginia, are back roads. Fries is on the New River, which rises in the mountains of North Carolina, meanders back and forth between North Carolina and Virginia, then joins the Kanawha River in West Virginia. There's a dam and waterfall, from a defunct mill, two former boarding houses listed on the National Register and an interesting looking community center. They are rehabbing the one block business district. I found Spring Valley Road, part of a rural historic district, and the Stephen G. Bourne House, set back from the road, on the way to Independence.

                                                          Community center, Fries
                                                     One of two historic boarding houses, Fries
                                                       restaurant on New River, Fries
                                                          old mill and dam, Fries


                                        Spring Valley Rural Historic District, west of Fries
                                                              Stephen G. Bourne House

It was downhill from Spring Valley to Independence, where the old courthouse, with the obligatory statue of a Confederate soldier, is now tourist offices and a museum of the county. The tourism lady loaded me up with pamphlets and suggested I visit a state park where there are wild horses that one is not supposed to interact with. Apparently, the horses are quite friendly and approach tourists. I asked her about the baby pine trees planted on many of the hillsides, and she told me that Christmas trees are a major industry in Grayson County.

She and another person working there suggested a restaurant halfway up the mountains to the north, but I wanted to see what was in town. I found a small shopping center with a Food City (original name)  grocery store. There was a buffet and seating, with a line of people at lunch time. I got a cup of good tomato basil soup and tried out the salad bar. That was good for lunch. River North State Prison for Men is near Independence, and some of the diners wore insignia from the prison. Brookside Farm and Mill is on U.S. 58 near Independence.


                                   
  Grayson County Courthouse, now offices, 1908. The new courthouse is up the hill to the right.
                                The house at Brookside Mill and Farm, near Independence, 1877

I drove up into the mountains to Troutdale, a former mill and mining town, now mostly empty. I found Ripshin, the home of Sherwood Anderson for many years. I was planning to go to Grayson Highlands  State Park, but then I saw that the Appalachian Trail ran through the national forest. I found an entrance and thought I would walk a half hour each way. Three hikers were near there, with backpacks and poles. I spoke to one, a young Englishman, who told me he had started in Georgia and was on his way to Maine. The trail went uphill, and I decided to only go fifteen minutes each way. 


                           Ripshin, at one time the home of author Sherwood Anderson, near Troutdale

                                               Bridge near the entrance to the Appalachian Trail
                                        Uphill on the trail, looking at the highest peaks in Virginia
                                                       Looking back down along the creek


From there, I went back to the hotel, about forty minutes away. I napped for an hour, and had a hankering for Chinese food. I found Canton Restaurant in Galax. It reminded me of Chinese restaurants in suburban Baltimore circa 1960, lots of red decor, paper lanterns. It was set up for a buffet, but that night, I had to order from the menu. I got chicken chow mein, East-coast style, lots of cabbage with pieces of chicken, and crispy noodles on top.There was only one other occupied table, and when they left another group came in. When I visited Carroll County in July, 2018, I loved Galax. There was a furniture factory that had a sign that said they used "American workers," and a bike shop, where the friendly proprietor rented me a bike, and I rode far up New River on the trail. At 6 P.M. on a Thursday, only this Chinese restaurant and a barbecue place were open, the furniture factory was vacant and for sale and the bike shop was gone. Most of the stores hawked touristy things one could find anywhere. I was disappointed.


Downtown Galax


I had a long ride home Friday, and the hotel is right on I-77, which goes to Beckley, where one gets on U.S. 19 through several small towns to I-79 into Morgantown. Still, I went back to Independence and up U.S. 21 to Wytheville, where I caught up with I-77. U.S. 21 through the mountains was spectacular, so I'm glad I did it. It's 271 miles from Independence to Morgantown, and about 25 miles from the motel to Independence.

I stopped halfway in Summerville, West Virginia, on U.S. 19. Summerville is a famous speed trap with lots of traffic lights and fast-food outlets. I got off the road and rode into the minuscule downtown, where I found a small restaurant. I had a bowl of spaghetti with marinara sauce and garlic bread. It was fine. I was home by about 4 P.M., took a nap, made dinner and went to Shabbat services with Joe.


Thursday, May 4, 2023

Goochland and Grayson Counties, Virginia, Part One: Goochland

 In my continuing efforts to catch up with my goal of visiting one county per month within 500 kilometers of Morgantown in any state, I visited two counties in April, both in Virginia. Goochland is just upstream from Richmond along the James River; Grayson is in the mountains near the borders of North Carolina and Tennessee. I had great, too-warm- for-April weather all week, Monday to Friday.

I drove to Goochland on my favorite, shorter-but-takes-longer route, U.S. 119 through Grafton, West Virginia onto U.S. 250 and over the covered bridge to Philippi, then to Elkins and over the mountains to Staunton, Virginia, then onto Interstate 64 to U.S. 522. I found the Goochland's Old Courthouse, with the obligatory Confederate statue on the front lawn. It was already after 4 P.M., so I left town to go to the motel, "Usual Chain" in Short Pump, a section of Henrico County, north of Richmond. On the way in, I spotted a branch of Silver Diner, the diner I visit often with my sister in Maryland. I walked there from the motel. The neighborhood of the hotel is lushly landscaped, with mostly office buildings and hotels. Mine was luxurious (and not as cheap as usual) but not crowded.

                                                       Goochland County Courthouse, 1826

Tuesday morning was my day to visit Goochland County. I decided to go east to west, visiting ten historic places that were accessible from a public road. Many of the historic places are 17th and 18th century estates down long driveways with fences and "No Trespassing" signs. I had discovered that I didn't have enough furosemide tablets. I usually take one every day so that water doesn't stay in my legs because of my weak heart's inability to pump it out. I decided this would be the day not to take one. It was a great relief, actually, because I could control when I needed to go.

My first stop was at Tuckahoe Plantation on the James River, in Manakin, built early in the seventeenth century. Thomas Jefferson spent part of his childhood there. The grounds are open to the public for a voluntary five dollar fee. It was a beautiful day, cool in the morning, then warmer in the afternoon. This was the best week in April to travel.There are several houses on the grounds, including former slave houses. To add to the scenery, there was a boy of about four with two dogs on the grounds. He was throwing a ball for the dogs to catch and retrieve. The dogs came up to me and I greeted them. They sniffed my hand, then went back to the boy. 

                                                             Tuckahoe Plantation, Manakin
                             Former slave quarters, occupied now by one family instead of two
                                                        Boy and dogs at a storehouse

                                                            One of several gardens at Tuckahoe

I found Wells Tavern on River Road, in the same community, built as a frame building in 1770, then bricked in 1820. Although the road follows the James River, there is no access to it. It is lined with mansions and modern upscale suburban developments on dead-end streets. 

                                                                       Wells Tavern

Oak Grove is a mid-nineteenth century estate with later additions near the community of Manakin-Sabot. I caught a glimpse of the main house at Rochambeau Farm in the same community, from about 1855.

                                                                       Oak Grove
                                                                    Rochambeau Farm

I visited Crozier, where I found the First Union School, a Rosenwald School, one of many in The South built by that family to educate Black children in segregated communities. According to Wikipedia, it closed in 1958, when the county integrated its schools, and became a residence in 1985. Tanglewood is near Maidens, just east of Goochland Courthouse . The front was built as a gas station in 1929, and the main part of the building added as a hotel in 1935. It is now a restaurant.


                                                              Former Rosenwald School
                                                                     Tanglewood

I headed to Goochland, sometimes called Goochland Court House in the Virginia style of naming the small community near a county courthouse the name of the county and "Courthouse." I ran into the tourist lady outside her office, which was closed. She told me she had come in to get some work done, but we talked for a few minutes. She said that the people along River Road will never say they live in Goochland County, they'll say they live in Richmond. I could feel her annoyance. She said "real" Goochland people are different. I guess she meant that Goochlan people aren't rich suburbanites, but more rural in their ways and outlook. There is a small shopping area near the courthouse square. I decided to go local and eat at Goochland Restaurant. Most items on the menu had bacon in them or were deep-fried, but there was a grilled chicken and vegetables plate that sounded healthy, so I ordered that. The waitress was surprised that I didn't want some ranch, bleu cheese or honey mustard dressing on my meal. 


                                                                Goochland Restaurant
                                                                     Sign in the restaurant

After lunch, I visited the beautiful county library (why isn't Morgantown's library beautiful?). I met a woman who had recently moved from Chicago to Goochland. She was turning in a novel by Emily St. John Mandel, which she said she didn't like, and complained that the library had no book clubs. I saw that they had a copy of Jeffrey Eugenides' Middlesex in the library sale section, and suggested she read that. She bought it. I got Hammond's Atlas of the 20th Century from the book sale. I found the Goochland Campus of Reynolds Community College. The tourist person told me they mostly teach gardening and landscaping. The Jackson Blacksmith Shop is a wooden shed built in 1932. Wikipedia says it is still in use, but I have my doubts. Nearby Byrd Presbyterian Church dates from 1838. A cousin pointed out to me that buildings like this look like houses in suburban Baltimore. Of course, the 20th century houses use buildings like this as models.


Goochland Library

                                             Goochland Campus, Reynolds Community College


Jackson Blacksmith Shop
Byrd Presbyterian Church

I ended at the Cartersville Bridge over James River, leading into Cumberland County, which I visited a few years ago. Cartersville is in Cumberland County. The original bridge was built on stone piers in 1822, with the superstructure of timber and cast iron is from 1883-84. There are only pieces of the bridge left. It's been replaced by a boring modern bridge. This was the only place I could find with a view of the James River.

                                       Ruins of the old Cartersville Bridge on the James River

I headed back to the hotel, a half-hour drive to and then on I-64. After a nap, I looked for a place to have dinner and found there is a Golden Corral buffet near the hotel. Although I knew where it was, I had difficulty finding it. The neighborhood, on Broad Street, way west of Richmond, reminds me of Kendall, the neighborhood I lived in in Miami from 1979-1984, full of garden apartments, shopping centers and office buildings far from the central city. I made up for my Spartan lunch.

After eating, I headed to Short Pump Town Center, the big mall I had found on the map. It's outdoors, a little like The Grove in Los Angeles, only bigger and better. There are fountains and places to sit in open courtyards. The weather all five days I was away was  warm and pretty. I went into Macy's (we don't have one in North Central West Virginia), but I noticed that only the registers were staffed; there were no workers on the floor to help a customer look for things. I'm not interested in spending a lot of money in stores with no help, although I saw some clothes I could wear. I came back to the room and plotted out Grayson County for the second part of the trip. 

                                                         I'm at Short Pump Town Center



Sunday, April 16, 2023

Gloucester County, New Jersey and Delaware County, Pennsylvania

 I changed my algorithm for my trips to go up to 500 kilometers instead of 300 miles. That gets me up to 310 miles. Woodbury, New Jersey, the seat of Gloucester County, is 308 miles from Morgantown; Media, the seat of Delaware County, is 304 miles. It's 22 miles from Woodbury to Media. Both counties are on the Delaware River. Delaware County is between Philadelphia and Wilmington, Delaware, and Gloucester County is just across the river. Gloucester is scheduled for this year (July 2022 to June 2023). Delaware was scheduled for February 2020, but I was behind by two months, and by April 2020, the world was shut down by COVID-19. I left Morgantown Wednesday, March 15, and spent two nights each in New Jersey, Pennsylvania and at my sister Robin's house in Maryland. 

I had mild springlike weather throughout, although it snowed in Morgantown and over the mountains the day before I left. Interstate 68 in Preston County, West Virginia and Garrett County, Maryland had been treated, leaving blindingly shiny water and chemicals on the road and snow drifts on the side of the highway. The temperature was as low as 15 F.

I stopped halfway to Woodbury in Frederick, Maryland on Route 40. I spotted a mall just west of the city, but it was mostly closed. Across the street was Mountain View Diner, which has a branch in nearby Martinsburg, West Virginia. They have an oldies theme. It was crowded with people my age, with waitresses not much younger. The kitchen help was Mexican men, judging from what I could pick up of their conversations. The woman who greeted me at the door called one of the waitresses "Mom." "Walking In The Rain, " a 1964 hit by The Ronettes, written by Barry Mann and Cynthia Weil and arranged by the late Phil Spector, was on the speaker. The greeter said "How are you?" and I said "You had me at "Walking In The Rain." She didn't understand. The wait staff was walking out with piles of bacon and French fries. I more cautiously ordered a short stack of pancakes and a cup of fresh fruit. 

I drove in to Woodbury late in the afternoon and found some historic places to photograph. The County Courthouse looks like a big stone church. I checked out a thrift shop, looking for the elusive 200th compact disc for my collection of the best-selling CDS from 2000-2009. No luck.

                                   Gloucester County Courthouse, Woodbury, New Jersey


             Hunter-Lawrence-Jessup House, 1765, renovated 1888, now Gloucester County Historic Society,               Woodbury
                                                 Woodbury Friends Meetinghouse, 1715
                   G.G. Green's Block, 1880, renovated after the 2011 Virginia earthquake, Woodbury

The Usual Chain didn't have a place in Gloucester County, so I stayed at a relatively inexpensive branch of The Other Chain in Deptford, a suburban borough along the expressway between Philadelphia and Atlantic City. I checked in and tried to nap, but I had a noisy neighbor who had family visiting, yacking in the hallway and slamming doors. I had a few minutes of shut-eye. Deptford Mall was nearby. I love malls, but most of them are dead or nearly so. This one was doing well with three department stores and a great food court. I got a heaping plate of teriyaki chicken with noodles. The mall at 6 P.M. was mobbed with mostly young people of many ethnicities and races. Most of the stores had fast-fashion for young women, athletic  shoes, hats and t-shirts for young men. There was an FYE store (the Morgantown Mall store closed in the pandemic), my go-to place for CDs, but this store no longer carried them. I felt like a relic of a previous era, looking for obsolete technology and being two generations older than most people at the mall.

I had two plans for my one full day in Gloucester County: one plan was to see 10 randomly selected historic places throughout the county; the other was to find a park, a university, a synagogue and an independent book store. I mapped out all of those places and headed south. The expressway through the county heads to Atlantic City, a place with lots of memories for me, but I wasn't planning to go there. 

I visited the borough (town in New Jersey) of Pitman because there is an independent book store called "Words Matter." I was looking for the Pulitzer-Prize winning novel "The Netanyahus" based on when the Israeli prime minister's family spent a year in the United States. They had Benjamin Netanyahu's autobiography, but that wasn't going to do it. I bought Jennifer Egan's latest "The Candy House."

On the map, I could see narrow streets fanning out from a central circle, so I walked down from the Main Street (Broadway, naturally) to see this neighborhood. It was started as a Methodist camp, with a barn-like meeting house in the middle. The small frame houses are on sidewalk streets fanning out from the central circle. It's human-scaled and charming. 

                                                  Broadway Theater, Pitman
                                                             Pitman Grove Historic District
                                                Auditorium in Pitman Grove, 1871, 1878 and 1911

Back in the car, I continued south to Williamstown to see the Memorial Library and Reading Room from 1878. Down the street was a theater where they were performing "A Street Car Named Desire." In younger years, I would have gone back in the evening to see it. Now I stay in after dinner. 

                                           Williamstown Free Library and Reading room, 1878


I visited Scotland Run Park near the south end of the county. There was a school group out on the picnic grounds and playground. I walked up to the lake to take a pic. The weather was sunny and pleasant, not too hot and not too cold. 

                                               Wilson Lake, Scotland Run State Park, Clayton

Driving north, I visited Glassboro and Rowan University. The university was closed for spring break, and I parked on a nearby street to take a picture of the West Jersey Railroad Station, from 1863, which used to run trains from Camden to Cape May. I walked across the street to take a picture of the main building at Rowan University, a state institution. I was gone no more than 10 minutes, and came back to find a borough worker writing a parking ticket. It turned out to be a $44.00 fine. It was lunch-time and I was going to stop somewhere in Glassboro, but decided to go back to Pitman for lunch.



                                             West Jersey Railroad, Glassboro Station 1863


                                                         Rowan University, Glassboro

On Broadway in Pitman, I found a vegan café and ordered an Impossible Burger. There was a giant Pride flag in the window. The owner had on a Gay Pride shirt. She told me she and her husband (!!) were supporters of gay rights, and that Pitman was known as a gay-friendly town. I found a comic book store and talked to the owners, a male-female couple from New York. I was amazed by the range of stuff. It was the week that includes March 17th and 18th, the when my father and mother died, 12 years apart. My sister had posted pictures of our parents on Facebook, and the woman at the comic book store let me show her their pictures. I must have been in a mood. I told them all I needed that I hadn't found was a used CD store, and Milton, the husband, pointed me to a store on the corner that specializes in used jewelry, but has records and CDs in the basement. A vast collection, as it turned out. There was a young man there going through the albums. He picked out "Yesterday and Today" by The Beatles and "Manassas," an album by a group with that name led by Stephen Stills, from 1972, decades before he was born. We didn't talk, until I found the elusive 200th CD from the best-selling albums from 2000-2009, the self-titled album from Ashanti, and a Grammy-winner for Best Contemporary R&B album for 2002. The price: $1.00. I don't remember the student's name, but he told me he was a college student at the University of Vermont, home in New Jersey for spring break. He told me he took a high school class called "American Popular Music-George Gershwin to the Present." I wish I had gone to that high school. He said he decided the best popular music was in the 1960s. I didn't argue.

My last stop was at a shop on one of the side streets off Broadway. They had a sign out on the corner about jewelry and gifts. There was a group of women talking when I walked in, and the owner eventually looked at me and said "Can I help you?" I saw earrings and thought I would buy a pair of earrings for my sister. We found an appropriate pair. More on that later. I had spent a lot of time in Pitman, and my only regret was that Joe wasn't with me. He loves finding hip little towns where you don't expect to find them. 

I found a few more places before heading back to the hotel. I visited Richardson Avenue School from 1931 in Swedesboro, and the 1772 Jesse Chew House in now-suburban Sewell, part of Mantua Township. I finally located Congregation B'nai Tikvah-Beth Israel, near Sewell. I read up on the history from articles linked to the temple website (cbti.org) and found that it was a merger of a dying synagogue in the center of Woodbury, and a faster-growing suburban synagogue in Turnersville, northwest of Sewell.


                                                  Richardson Avenue School, Swedesboro, 1931
                                                    Jesse Chew House, 1772, Sewell

                                                    B'nai Tikvah-Beth Israel, near Sewell

It was late by that time, so I headed back to the motel, napped for a bit, and went back to the mall for a later dinner, after 6:30. I had a chicken gyro with vegetables and salad at a Greek stand, and either because the young woman found me charming or because it was late, and they had to close by 8, she gave me enormous portions of everything, more than I could eat.

Friday after breakfast,  I checked out and of the motel and headed across the Delaware River on the Walt Whitman Bridge, then through the south end of Philadelphia to Delaware County just to the south. I started in Chester, the largest city in the county (there are larger townships), the former county seat, and, I'm told, the poorest and most-crime-ridden city in Pennsylvania.

I started at Widener University, uphill and northwest of the center of Chester. I found Old Main  at the center of campus. The weather was warm and students, mostly White in a predominantly Black city, were out on campus. Downtown, I found Third Presbyterian Church from 1872, destroyed by an arson fire in 2020, and the restored 1724 Chester Courthouse in the center of town. The William Penn Landing Historic Marker from 1882 is in a sad-looking little park; the former Delaware National Bank Building is nearby. There is a commercial downtown block, but I didn't see much open. South along the river, I found a parking lot adjacent to a soccer stadium sponsored by Subaru. From there, I had a good view of the Delaware River and Commodore Barry Bridge, named for a Revolutionary War hero from Philadelphia, and opened in 1974. I could see the 1916 Philadelphia Electric Complex, now an office building at the south end of Chester.

               Old Main and Chemistry Building, Widener University, 1867and 1883, Chester
                                              Ruins of Third Presbyterian Church, 1872, Chester
                                                       1724 Delaware County Courthouse, Chester
                                   Former Delaware National Bank Building, 1882-1884, Chester
                                   Site of William Penn's Landing, 1682, monument 1882, Chester
                                   Commodore Barry Bridge over the Delaware River, opened 1974, Chester
                           Chester Waterside Station of Philadelphia Electric Company, now offices, 1916

It was still early, so I headed to Haverford Township, a historic area west of Philadelphia. I found Havertown Shopping Center with Cathy's Half-Price Books, my independent bookstore for this part of the trip. I didn't see anything in the used section that I wanted, and the new books were full price. I was having a burst of worrying about how much money I was spending, so I didn't buy anything. In the same shopping center is a bagel shop, where I had a bagel with cream cheese for lunch. There is also an Acme supermarket, where I bought an orange for dessert and a Cliff Bar for later, and ate the orange while sitting in my car.

Looking for historic places, some of which were hidden or just hard to find, I discovered The Federal School, a one-room schoolhouse from 1797, the Llanerch Public School, from 1913, and Nitre Hall, the home of the owner of a long-gone powder mill, built just after 1800, and a museum today. I wandered into Upper Darby Township and found Lower Swedish Cabin, possibly dating to the 1640s. I ended at Merion Golf Club, where the courses, from 1912 and 1914, are listed on the National Register of Historic Places. It was raining, so no one was out.
                                            Llanerch Public School, Haverford Township, 1931
                                          Lower Swedish Cabin, Upper Darby Township, 1640s
                                               Nitre Hall, just after 1800, Haverford Township
                                                   Merion Golf Club, Haverford Township
                                             Former Federal School, Haverford Township, 1797

My friend Mark Silber contacted me. He was someone I knew in Miami, and we had lost track of each other years ago, but thanks to the magic of Facebook, we reconnected. He has a restored late Victorian house in West Philadelphia, near the University of Pennsylvania, and agreed to meet me at my hotel for dinner.

The hotel is unusual for "The Usual Chain" because it is about seven stories tall, near the Delaware River south of the city and the airport. It looks somewhat Vegas-like, with fake pilasters by the elevator doors, and balconies in each room, which the hotel asks guests not to open. There is a restaurant, but there's no free breakfast.  It's also an event center. Mark called me, but I had turned down the volume on the phone, and didn't hear it. He arrived at the hotel and had the desk clerk call the room. We had a pleasant dinner at the hotel. I was glad to see him and catch up. 

                                                 with Mark Silber, Essington, Tinicum Township


Since it was Friday night, I looked for a synagogue to attend nearby. All I could find was a Reconstructionist synagogue near Media, the county seat, and they were having an online-only service. I decided I would rather tune in to Joe's service from Morgantown, so that's what I did.

Saturday morning, I walked a mile to a WAWA store, where I bought oatmeal and some fruit to take back to my room. It was cool, not cold, in the morning and the store was packed with people who looked like they were going to a job. After breakfast, I drove to Media, the county seat, where the parking meters were either for ten mutes or an hour and a half. I took the ten-minute option, and snapped a picture of the Media Armory, now a Trader Joe's store. Off the Main Street, full of trendy stores and little cafés, I found a historic house, now a B&B, and the county courthouse.

I headed south where there is a synagogue in a remodeled barn, next to a vineyard, across the main road from a development of upscale houses. It was after twelve, so I thought no one would be there, but there had been a meeting, so I first met a member who was security, things being how they are these days, then I met the woman who runs the facilities, the congregation president, and finally, the rabbi, with whom I have a common friend. 

It was past lunch time. I had passed a Panera on the way, and thought I would go there, but instead I pulled into a diner, that was crowded with people in my age group. I ordered a chicken parmigiana sandwich, and upgraded to sweet potato fries from regular fries. It was way too much food, but I somehow managed to eat all but the last few fries. I noted that all the staff looked alike, dark features, and with an accent I took to be Greek. I said "efaristo," meaning "thank you" in Greek when I paid the bill, but the cashier just said "That's okay." "I thought you all are Greek," I said. "Turkish," he replied. That was an "oops!" moment. Outside, someone had parked a new-looking 1957 Chevrolet station wagon. I couldn't find my keys, so I went back in, where they were on the table. I found the owner of the car and thanked him for making my day happy with his car.

It was not warm out, but sunny, so I drove to Ridley Creek State Park. I parked and walked a path through the park, which was crowded with people and their dogs. I found a historic bridge, and the visitor center, in a mansion mid-park, unfortunately closed for a private event. 

                                                               Media Armory, 1908
                                           Risley House, 1877, now a bed and breakfast, Media
                                                       Delaware County Courthouse, Media
                                                      Congregation Beth Israel of Media
                                                 1957 Chevrolet Bel Air station wagon
                                                     Historic bridge in Ridley Creek State Park
     Mansion in Ridley Creek State Park, about 1918, now the Visitor Center and an event center


I needed an Apple Store, or at least I thought I did, because I tripped over the computer cord in the hotel and broke the cord. There is a store in Ardmore, a community that can be in Delaware or Montgomery County or the city of Philadelphia. It's confusing. I went there the way with fewest turns and entered Philadelphia and moved into Montgomery County. The store was in what looked like an office complex turned into upscale retail, mobbed with upscale-looking people, including lots of young people, at stores and restaurants. The Apple store was crowded with people looking at the latest doo-dads, but I found someone to help me, and for $20, I scored a new wire. I could have used the cord from my phone, or bought something cheaper, but I found the area interesting.

I headed back to the hotel, which was hosting an event, meaning I had to park from the door. I crashed for more than an hour.

For dinner, I went out to a supermarket I found on Google Maps, bought a bagel,  single servings of Cheerios and cottage cheese and a pear and ate back at the room.

I was heading to my sister's home in Greenbelt, Maryland, outside Washington, so I thought I would get a fast breakfast at the hotel restaurant. After waiting twenty minutes, during which time I got a cup of tea, but no one had taken my order, I offered to pay for the tea. The cashier asked me about canceling my order. When I told her I hadn't ordered she said I didn't have to pay for the tea. The few would-be diners in the place were also frustrated at how horrible the service was.

I wasn't all that hungry, so I packed up and left. I bought oatmeal at the rest stop in Delaware, and continued on my trip. Google directions had me go through Baltimore's Harbor Tunnel to the Baltimore-Washington Parkway, but I decided to go straight through on I-95 from near the hotel, to near my sister's house. It was easy, except for my body freaking and needing to pee every twenty minutes. I'll spare readers the details. 

My sister was delighted with the earrings from the store in Pitman, New Jersey. We visited the National Arboretum Monday to see some trees in bloom and even a palm tree! We lunched at Silver Diner in Greenbelt, one of my favorite places.

         My sister Robin, modeling the earrings I bought in Pitman, New Jersey, at the National Arboretum        in Washington, D.C.


I had an uneventful trip home Tuesday, stopping for lunch and gas at a Sheetz store outside Cumberland. 

There are 96 places on the National Register of Historic Places in Delaware County. I barely touched the surface. This was a longer trip than most of the ones I do. I love being in the Philadelphia area. People are friendly, the population is diverse and there's good scenery and a variety of places. Much of the area is like the suburbs of Baltimore, not that far away. The difference is how many places are left from the 18th and 19th century.